Tuesday, July 04, 2006

On Sex



Population explosion in this country is becoming one of the fundamental issues. With the Church banning the use of contraceptives, time will tell where this problem will lead .

Correct me if I’m wrong but I have heard that people sometimes copulate because of the sheer act of pleasuring each other…was it true? Hmmmm...Then if that is the case, many people are having sex simply for the fun of it rather than exemplifying the act of procreation. BINGO!

As much as we don’t want to admit it, abstinence cannot be practiced by the whole damn population because many [youths for that matter] with raging hormones simply don’t want to put up with it and wherever available holes that their wangers can be inserted on…shoot, there it goes.

Time has changed, as you may well notice, and being stranded on the era where Maria is still a virgin and Pedro is still a gentleman will not do us any good [I’m not generalizing of course and I will tell you in a minute.]

Fact is, which I can vouch, sex nowadays is a dime a dozen. Many of my buddies were ostracized in their college years because they were still a virgin. Peer pressure, teen rebellion, you name it, youth experiments and will shove their curiosities till they have it. Disappointing as it may seem but that’s the real world where we are now and being on denial with this issue will leave us a bad taste afterwards.

The government together with the parents must make it a priority to educate the kids on their formative years about sex. Tell them as it is without the sugary coating of butterflies and bees. Tell them the truth about STD’s and AIDS with pictures of gonorrhea or syphilis etc. By opening their eyes with the real issues, I am confident that they will become responsible adults. As with the part of the Church, well, it’s more of teaching its flock about the Bible based truth about purity and the greater satisfaction in knowing that true love can wait. Preachy aint I?

As stated above, I’m not viewing the public as a drone. Many are still practicing abstinence.

I’m one of them.

Truth is I am proud of being a virgin. It’s more of my inner principle and my faith that keeps me from doing the deed. I don’t want to sound self-righteous but not everyone has the tenacity to keep themselves away from temptations. It takes a lot of courage and determination to go against the flow of mainstream ideology…and I don’t give a damn to be with the flow anyway.

I believe that sex is a God-given gift to be enjoyed but must be done only within the perimeters of marriage. Should life be developed during that union, it must be cherished, intensified and nurtured.

Life is so fragile that the misuse of it by the giver will create an irreparable repercussion to its bearer.

To sum it up…not all fucktards [forgive the word] can be a parent. Not because you have an instrument to be used, you have the justification to use it as you please. Be responsible. For your own goodness, for your child’s goodness and for the goodness of everyone.

Critics are welcome to comment.

15 Comments:

Blogger His suzy said...

My original plan was to wait for marriage to have sex, and even though that has changed for me, I'm still glad that that was my original path. It meant that I was in my mid-20's before I lost my virginity and I was old enough to be responsible in case anything unexpected happened. (And thank God it didn't!) I think it's a good idea to educate young people not just on the bad things that can happen physically, but also emotionally and mentally, especially for girls. Sex is a big deal, in my opinion, and shouldn't be looked at as something casual.

6:30 AM  
Blogger vic said...

Wait for marriage and you might end up losing the very one you wanted to. If you're of age and rearing to go, have fun, but remember children are no fun when you're not ready for them. So before you dip, just remember this: the Philippines is now rated as one among the highest rate in single mothers. just don't add another one...Please..

9:18 AM  
Blogger j said...

way to go Jef! I really admire people like you, how I wish there would be more :)

9:23 AM  
Blogger gone said...

sex is something that can be addictive to people once they start and also when you did it once, why hang back? that seems to be what some of my mates say. or its just having fun...hmmm, everything has a cost to it.

I dont know if scare tacticks would work to stop people, like showing them stats for STD's an all but what would stop me now thinking 'oh what the heck' would be that is not about sex, thas just a bump and grind, its about love.

Love is difrent, making love to someone you love i cant even imagine what thas like. bit scary i guess. Its about love and self respect and taking back something God meant to be intimate that the devil has made ugly and empty.

Wait for love, and making love.

6:04 PM  
Blogger Ymir said...

wow! what a topic you got here. hehe.

11:24 PM  
Blogger JaG said...

Hey Jef! Surfed here from Roxanne's blog by clicking your picture in her comments because I think you look cute.

12:37 AM  
Blogger Roxanne said...

Like Suzy, I had planned on waiting for marriage. I was 18 when I finally "gave in" to my boyfriend's requests. He was actually my fiance at that time and is now my hubby. I guess I rationalized myself into thinking that it was ok since he was the one I was going to marry anyway. Good for you for being proud of your beliefs. Not many men are confident in themselves enough to stand by what they believe.

12:52 PM  
Blogger BongA said...

is this a poll on virginity? hehehe. I admire people who can wait to get married before having sex. But I do not think negatively of people who choose to enjoy sex with or without, before, during or after marriage. it is a choice.

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1:53 PM  
Blogger James said...

I don't believe that it is a choice, I mean, you are guaranteed to be happier with one sexual partner, all studies on the subject have pointed to that. You won't get STD's. There has been no change in the levels of hormones released it the current generation, it just that the media is now turning pervert into the norm. Most men 50 years ago didn't watch porn, goto strip clubs, or sleep around, but that is what world media is saying is normal! Thats is not normal. What happened to chivalry, and putting others before your own desire for gratification? I am a 21 year old virgin and I am so pround of that, that is not a statis that was easy for me to obtain...it was hard. But now i can go before my wife, and be pure, clean. She know that I have resevered the number one level of commitmant and intamacy for her, and only her, that is a kind of security that only absinance is able to bring...and honestly I wouldn't date someone who has had multiple sexual partner. They have shown that the highest levels of commitment are for there own use, and that it means nothing to them. Or that it is reserve for their latest fling...I want someone who has provest with thier life that commintment is a something for life. It goes so much further than sex, it is impossible to separate sex into it's own catagory. Nothing good EVER comes from premarital sex, there maybe good parts (a newborn baby is a good thing, but a fatherless one is not). Being a Christian, Christ also require us to not have premarital sex, that is my ulitimate authority and is reason enough, but I know some of you who will read this aren't Christians. When the Bible says not to do something, its not to keep you from fun, it's to keep you from making a huge, irriverable mistake.

5:36 AM  
Blogger gone said...

that is kool James in an ideal world but like what if the person you are in love with you find out she isnt a virgin but because she was hurt and not of her choice? Would you discount a person because you are proud of your status and they dont match you? She might be redeamed by Gods grace but it would be hard for her to stand along side you when you are so proud of your own achievement.

8:12 PM  
Blogger James said...

sorry I don't mean to sound proud, I meant to show how important it was for me. And I don't want to sound like a i would never date someone who wasn't a virgin, but i wouldn't date someone who slept around, if that person did that before they were saved, or while not right with the lord, and has since repented, then thats a differant story. I really didn't want or mean to sound proud. i guess it my comment was geared more toward sleeping around.

3:20 AM  
Blogger gone said...

I get what you mean James totally, thanks for explaining guy. I agree it is sooo important and i know you will find what your looking for.

That day will be very special!

9:37 PM  
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